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w1nL0v3wrote:
hey there! i stumbled upon your space coz i'm a fan of lolcats :) keep on posting them kittehs and make the world a meower place!
Jan. 27
leannawrote:
Hi there Clowdermom! Just wanted to wish you and your kittie's a very healthy and Happy Thanksgiving! My cats Ernie and Bert say hello! Leanna
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Willow Livewrote:
hey Lady!!  How have you been? I have not been here in a while. I thought that you were inactive until I saw a notification that you have a new friend! So here I am... :-) How are you doing?  Is the baggage gone?  And how are the kitties??  I hope that your life is good!  Hugs to you!
July 11
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Happy Birthday
 
Happy birthday I am sure by tomorrow you will have found a pin!!!
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just droping by to say happy birthday
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Ohhhhh Baaaaaby.......YES it was.....Tongue out
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Hey you....long time no hear from.  Just wanted to say "hi"
I hope all is well with you! Open-mouthed
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wendy harriswrote:
tried to send a pic of the wee stray wee took in
she is a lovely torti cat n has made herself so at home
Mar. 23
It's been far too long since I've been in. Just saying hi. Be safe. Have fun.~Kota
Mar. 18
leprechaunwrote:
happy st patricks day
love the pics, take care best of irish luck ta ya!
give ta cat a pat fa me.
Mar. 17
Willow Livewrote:
HI Rae, how have you been?  I miss seeing you on QnA. I just saw an update posted on the homepage of spaces, and thought that I would drop by and see what you have been up to?  How are the kitties? And how has life been treating you? I see that you just keep better and better (more and more talented) with your computer stuff...  You take care of yourself :-)
Mar. 16
 
All the best from Alabama! Mitch
Mar. 13

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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass
It's about learning to dance in the rain


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July 05

Life Lessons

Life Lessons

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, journalist at The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio.

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me... It is the most-requested column I've ever written."

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch
.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate,
 resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret,
 you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood... But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
 
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words
 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Life isn’t about waiting for the storms to pass… It’s about learning to dance in the rain!

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."


Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves

May 01

Let's See if I remember how to do this....

          

2008 is the year of new beginnings....  I'm making room for the new.  Hopefully, the "baggage" will be released by the end of June legally - time will tell.  Until then, I remind myself to dance in the rain and count my blessings - I AM LOVED!!!

November 01

Updating the Blog

I just learned that Mixpo is eliminating their video hosting services, so I'm attempting to save the videos I created (.wmv files) in Soapbox.  I tried YouTube previously but there were translation errors repeatedly so I finally gave up.  I hope I have better success with Soapbox - time will tell.  Sarcastic Computer

Good Riddance!

 

Beth & Dog Halloween Costume Party Video

  
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August 01

Seizures - Possible causes and suggestions....

I hope you never experience what I did, but if you read this article I found, you may be better prepared... 

Witnessing your precious dog or cat having a seizure can be a most frightening experience. During seizures pets often lose control, fall over, chomp their teeth, salivate or drool, whine, paddle with their feet, and begin to urinate or deficate on themselves. Their eyes become large (dilated) and unresponsive. A pet caregiver feels panicked and helpless while watching it all happen.

Hopefully, you and your pet have never, and will never, have to experience this shocking event. But, if you have, or if you experience it in the future, this article will help you to understand what causes seizures, what you can do while your pet is having a seizure, and the various treatment options available.

What causes seizures? Epilepsy is one cause. Certain dog breeds are more susceptible to epilepsy. These include: cocker spaniels; poodles; collies; german shepherds; irish setters; golden retrievers; dachshunds, labrador retrievers, saint bernards, miniature schnauzers, siberian huskies, and wire-haired terriers. Veterinarians are not sure what causes this “hereditary” epilepsy.

In cats, hereditary epilepsy is unusual. Vets can normally find the cause of seizures. These include chemical toxins (which includes chemical preservatives used in many pet foods), brain tumors, feline leukemia, feline infections, peritonitis, feline AIDS, head trauma, and problems with the liver and kidneys.

In dogs there are many causes of seizures besides hereditary epilepsy. Allergies to food and the chemicals, preservatives, and artificial flavors put into the foods can cause seizures. Other causes include liver and kidney disease, tumors, poisonings, and low blood sugars.

What can you do while your pet is having a seizure? Try to stay calm. This is hard to do, but using a calm, reassuring quiet voice will comfort your dog or cat. Move any furniture or other objects on which your pet could hurt itself. If you’re unable to move the object, place pillows or wrap blankets between the pet and the object. Slide something soft under your pet’s head, but be sure to keep your hands and face away from his head so that you don’t risk a possible bite. You can gently stroke his hip or side, but position yourself opposite the side of the feet and toenails as the muscle spasms make the feet curl into claws that can gouge or rake your skin. Dim the lights, and keep the environment as quiet as possible by turning off the TV and loud music.

If possible take notes about the seizure so that you can give details to your vet. Jot down the time of day it occurred, the length of each seizure, and the time in between each seizure if they are recurrent. Your vet will also want to know whether your pet urinated or deficated, if the seizure hit suddenly or progressed from mere body twitching, whether your pet regained consciousness, and how long it took before your pet appeared normal again. In addition, you’ll need to figure out whether there were any possible triggering events. These include loud noises such as fireworks, unusual items that were eaten, and excessive playing or exercise.

After the seizure, pets usually appear lost or drugged. This drugged state can last a few minutes to several hours depending on the severity of the seizure. Your pet may respond to you, but do so in a very slow manner. Since seizures are exhausting for your pet, he will probably want to sleep afterwards. It is best to allow him to sleep, but check in on him occasionally without disturbing his rest.

If this is your pet’s first seizure, call your vet as soon as possible. Some vets will want to see if another seizure occurs, while others will perform a variet of blood tests to check for anemia, liver & heart functions, calcium, glucose, & electrolyte levels. Your vet may even run a screen for possible toxins, take x-rays, or perform an electroencephalogram.

The test results may not indicate the specific reason for the seizure. In this case, your vet may wait to see if another seizure occurs or he/she may suggest medications. If the diagnosis is epilepsy, pets have an excellent chance to live a normal life as long as proper medical care and follow-up are provided.

If you discover the cause of the seizure, you may be able to eliminate future seizures by eliminating the seizure’s source. For instance, if the seizure is due to chemcial toxins, make sure your pet remains as free of toxins as possible. Provide human grade food and treats that do not contain chemical preservatives, fillers, or byproducts. Clean your house with chemical-free products. Also, use more natural flea, tick, & heartworm prevention products as some of these products may lower your pet’s seizure threshold and make seizures more difficult to control. Avoid products containing organophosphate insecticides. For safer heartworm prevention, use products containing interceptor and filaribits.

What can you do if your pet’s seizure condition cannot be cured and you realize you and your pet may have to live with the seizures? In the past, the only treatment options available were strong anticonvulsants that could have serious side effects. These still may be your only option. But, more natural approaches have been found to help some pets, either prior to stronger medications or in addition to them so that you may be able to lower the dose. There are a variety of treatment options that include a natural diet, acupuncture, nutritional supplements, homeopathy, herbs, and conventional medications.

As mentioned above, give your pet a human grade diet, free of chemicals and additives. Also, remove other toxins from your pet’s environment. Clean with natural products and use more natural flea, tick, and heartworm prevention measures.

Minimize stress in your pet’s life. Try to avoid sudden changes in his environment, loud noises, and other stressful situations.

You can also try herbs that act as sedatives. These include valerian root, kava, skullcap and oatstraw. Note that when using herbs and supplements, you may need to lower the dosage of other anticonvulsants.

Several supplements appear to help in preventing seizures. Try an antioxidant combination of Vitamin C, E, B-6, and selenium. Your vet can recommend the dosage for your pet. Magnesium and DMG (dimethyl glycine) are other helpful supplements.

Acupuncture is another helpful option which has helped to control seizures in many pets. Sometimes just placing an ear acupuncture tack in a dog’s ear will stop seizures, and this only requires one acupuncture visit.

If the ear tack doesn’t work, gold implants can be placed in different locations under a pet’s head. Or your pet can be treated with traditional chinese acupuncture.

As you can see, there are many natural approaches to treating seizures in pets. These should help your beloved pet to live a normal and comfortable life.


Important Disclaimer: This information is not meant to diagnose or prescribe for you. If you or your pet has a medical problem, you should consult your medical doctor or veterinarian.  
 
This article is from Catnip Chronicles, a wonderful website providing helpful information through monthly newsletters.  Visit http://www.catnipchronicles.com/aug2007/deena.htm 
July 26

Ready to go to work at the (K)itty Bar

A friend from around the world created this!  I found it so comical, I just had to post it.  Thank you, Jan!
 
 

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July 14

Farewell my friend

Spaz turned 15 in March.  She has been diagnosed with Chronic Renal Failure (CRF).  Although I give her IV fluid injections daily, she still has a quality life, has a healthy appetite and grooms herself (when these indicators are no longer true, I'll force myself to let her go to the Rainbow Bridge).  She's very affectionate and precious.   

Spaz was napping in her favorite basket, when I heard her cry.  As I looked to check on her, she had fallen out of the basket, was lying on her side with the basket knocked over.  Upon closer inspection, I could see her tongue hanging out, her eyes dilated and she was having spasms.  Still crying, I brushed her fur to calm her.  That had no affect, so I picked her up and sat down cradling her in my arms.  I could see her eyes jerk.  She continued to cry and convulse.  What's happening?  I continued to speak to Spaz to reassure her and calm her down.  She's known to be a biter, so picking her up while she was in this state would probably not have been advised, but I've been bitten before and it just didn't matter at the time.  As I continued to speak, thinking hearing my voice would be calming, she began to settle.  Her eyes returned to normal and the convulsions stopped.  I cradled her and stroked her fur for what seemed like a half an hour when she attempted to get up.  I didn't prevent her, she scurried clumsily across the nightstand to her box on the bed.  She staggered in and lay down.  I lay down beside her and began to stroke her head and then rub her chin - she liked that, she arched her neck so I could do a better job.   

Since we’ve made the Exodus from St. Louis, living in the ‘desert’ hasn’t been easy for her.  The Gleesome Threesome consider her a toy to chase and torment.   

Last night, she didn’t sleep… and neither did I.  She convulsed and cried so much I thought she wouldn’t make it through the night.  It was obvious she was in pain - she was panting and you could feel her fever.  You could see her tiny body struggle to breathe.  Her eyes were dilated – I wondered if it was high blood pressure and if it would make her go blind.   “God, please don’t let her suffer.”  I’d even considered putting her out of her misery myself – until I remembered reading about how our animals look to us for protection and provision and love us unconditionally – there’s no way I could betray that trust.  I did everything I could think of to comfort her.  She’s lost control of her hind legs and her bladder.  

This morning, she couldn’t walk, eat or drink…  She wouldn’t even show interest in her favorite Cosmic Catnip.  The Gleesome Threesome kept a watchful eye on her, but didn’t bother her.  She seemed to feel a bit better and even attempted to groom herself… until another convulsion hit her and her poor little body just writhed in agony as she cried.  I picked her up to hold her and prevent her from accidentally hurting herself – I could feel her gratitude.  As I sat down with her in my lap, I cradled her head and stroked her fur.  As her eyes returned to normal and her crying eased, I stroked her chin…. and cried.  I knew I couldn’t let her endure any more pain and that it was time to let her go keep Nero company at the Rainbow Bridge.   

I made the phone call to the Vet; he’ll be on his way shortly.  I suppose the Gleesome Threesome understood what was happening, because each of them came to us – I guess, in their own way, to say goodbye.  Spaz has been a wonderful teacher to me for 15 years as well as a trusted companion.  Spaz, I will miss you my precious little princess.   You were demanding, ever so picky, but oh, so loyal and loving and there will never be another like you…  Thank you for letting me share your life, I was the best meowmy I knew how to be and I hope I made you happy.  I’m sorry if I let you down in any way.  

The Vet and his assistant arrived.  Spaz seemed quite content and relaxed, never once offering any resistance – maybe she was ready to go….  I chose to have her cremated, so the Vet told me I could pick her up in 2-3 weeks.  This afternoon, I chose an urn for her ashes…. and cried – selfishly.  I will miss that little spitfire!

Something I noticed for the first time today:  Each time I cried, Reno came to me and got on my lap.  Reno is named after my first-born Nero who died shortly before her birth.  He was my guardian and protector who, every time I would cry, would come get in my face and meow, “Meowmy, I love you.  Please don’t cry.  It’ll be okay.”  I guess my cats aren’t only my kids, they’re my guardian angels, too.  You know what?  I guess that makes me pretty fortunate.  

 

Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.  There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.  There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.   The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

 

 

Your Pets In Heaven

by Ken D. Conover

To have loved and then said farewell, is better than to have never loved at all.  For all of the times that you have stooped and touched my head, fed me my favorite treat and returned the love that I so unconditionally gave to you.  For the care that you gave to me so unselfishly.  For all of these things I am grateful and thankful.

I ask that you not grieve for the loss, but rejoice in the fact that we lived, loved and touched each others lives. My life was fuller because you were there, not as a master/owner, but as my FRIEND.

Today I am as I was in my youth. The grass is always green, butterflies flit among the flowers and the Sun shines gently down upon all of God's creatures.

I can run, jump, play and do all of the things that I did in my youth. There is no sickness, no aching joints and no regrets and no aging.

We await the arrival of our lifelong companions and know that togetherness is forever.  You live in our hearts as we do in yours. Companions such as you are so rare and unique.  Don't hold the love that you have within yourself. Give it to another like me and then I will live forever. For love never really dies, and you are loved and missed as surely as we are.

Your Pets In Heaven

 

 

 

 

July 10

Spaz update

Spaz is hanging in there - she's a tough little trooper.  I give her IV fluids daily and, while her appetite has decreased, it's still pretty good - whenever I think she hasn't eaten enough, I'll give her some Cosmic catnip (she loves to eat it) and it makes her hungry so she'll eat some more ;-) 
 
She gets around fairly well, staggers on occasion, loses her footing and falls off the desk.  She doesn't get near the amount of exercise or freedom she enjoyed before the separation and I feel guilty about that  frequently.  She keeps pretty close to me because the Gleesome Threesome think she's a toy that they can play with and terrorize....  I must admit, I miss having the ability to keep them in separate living areas, but this is the life we have to deal with....  But I do stay close by and I'm usually at her beck and call to do whatever I can to keep her happy and as healthy as possible.
 
Spaz has the personality of a spoiled princess - which doesn't help the situation.  Sometimes the kids just want to smell her to be friendly and get to know her.  Maybe because they've been mean to her in the past, she's defensive and over-reacts by hissing at them. 
 
It's the cats' world, I'm just here to open the cans - LOL - and play referee when I have to.  Spaz is still affectionate, grooms herself (which indicates good health), likes attention (another good health indicator), and purrs when I pet her...  I'm grateful for every day we share together.
 
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Kitty's Inappropriate Urination

Causes of inappropriate urination can fit into two categories: medical or behavioral. A host of urinary tract problems, ranging from inflammation of any part of the urinary tract to a variety of infections are examples of medical problems that can cause a cat (male or female) to urinate outside the litter box.  

The first step to finding a solution is taking kitty to the vet to eliminate potential medical causes.  Remember, don’t punish kitty for not using the litter box – frequently, this is their only way of communicating to you “Hey, I’m sick, help me.”  

Some potential medical problems that could cause kitty to stop using the litter box include:

urinary bladder inflammation

FUS

Bacterial infections

trauma

calculi (bladder stones)

tumors

diarrhea (many causes)

small intestinal- soft to watery

colitis (inflamed colon) - mucus in stool, blood, straining

polydipsia/polyuria  (excessive water volume consumed and urine voided: upper water intake for cats is 1oz/lb; most cats drink considerably less than this)

diabetes insipidus

diabetes mellitus

kidney disease

liver disease

adrenal gland disease

pyometra (pus in the uterus)

hypocalcaemia (high blood calcium)

others  

To help your vet diagnose the potential problem, print and fill out this form (provided by my vet) and take it to your vet when you take kitty for evaluation http://www.stlouiscatclinic.com/Inappropriate_Urination.pdf  

Behavioral explanations for inappropriate urination can be even more challenging, because when it comes to their bathroom habits, kitties are complex creatures. Following are a few of the different behavioral items that can cause a cat to begin urinating inappropriately. This list is, by no means, complete. It does, however, represent some of the more common explanations for this behavior.  

Territorial Marking

intact female in heat

intact male spraying

marking of peripheral walls particularly near windows may be from presence of outdoor cats

may be triggered by over-crowding of indoor cats

previously neutered cat has a bit of testicular or ovarian tissue remaining, possibly resulting in a low level of hormone which could trigger marking

neutered male with sexual experience exposed to female in heat  

Multiple Cats Using One Litter Box
Many cats do not like to use a litter box that has already been used by another cat. (Can you blame them?!)
  

Addition of a New Cat
Because urine is used by cats as a way of marking their territory, the addition of a new cat can trigger urine marking.

Failure to Spay or Neuter a Cat
Fertile kitties are much more likely to mark with urine than are fixed animals.
  

Area Previously "Marked"
An area that has previously been marked with cat urine will continue to attract cats to mark there, even after it has been cleaned. It is also worth noting that some household cleaners, like those containing ammonia, can stimulate marking behavior in cats.

With all of these possible causes to potty problems in cats, it is no surprise that diagnosing and solving inappropriate urination can be challenging, especially since medical and behavioral issues can work together to perpetuate the undesirable behavior. For example, a urinary tract infection can cause a cat to dribble urine throughout the living space, resulting in numerous "marked" areas where cats may be inclined to urinate in the future.

With all of these possible causes, diagnosing the real underlying issue leading to inappropriate urination can be a real challenge. However, stopping the behavior is do-able so long as all of these complexities are taken into account in the final solution. Following is a step-by-step guide to stopping inappropriate urination, regardless of the cause. If followed carefully and completely, this protocol will end inappropriate urination with nearly 100% of cats exhibiting this behavior.
  

Litter Box Problems

overcrowding: too many cats using same box

failure to change litter frequently enough -- some cats won't use a dirty box

failure to provide constant access to litter box

change in type of litter used

change in location of litter box

unfamiliar, frightening, or loud objects near box: dishwasher, etc.

food and water too close to litter box

objectionable chemical used to wash or disinfect litter box

location preference: your cat may want the box in a different location

texture preference: your cat doesn't like the feel of the litter

failure to cover litter: learned process from parents

use of litter box is instinctive

cats that don't cover litter may be more prone to litter box problems

your cat may be indicating texture preference problem  

LAS (Litter Aversion Syndrome)
Litter Aversion Syndrome is really just a fancy way of saying that many cats do not like the litter they are offered. This is especially common with clay litters, leading many people to conclude that something (excessive dust?) is unpleasant to the cat and serves to deter them from using the product.

Dirty Litter Box
Some cats will not use a dirty litter box. Others will not defecate in a box they have already used to urinate.
  

Psychological Stress
(most common manifestation is inappropriate urination)

addition or subtraction of other pets in household

visitors, company, parties, redecorating, construction, or any type of commotion

a move to a new environment

change in routine or schedule: a new job or working hours

their return from boarding or hospitalization

interaction problem with other pets or cats

cats are asocial rather than antisocial; in the wild each has a territory and period of contact with others in the group (and only one male per group)

a closed environment will create a greater degree of interaction than some cats prefer. The more cats in a household, the greater the degree of interaction  

Chemical Attraction of Previous "Accidents:"

likely to produce repeated visitations to the same spot

may induce urination by other members of a multi-cat household

you may have moved to a residence previously occupied with other dogs and/or cats


Declawing a Cat
Removal of a cat's claws removes their primary defense mechanism. This can make them more territorial and result in increased likelihood they will urine mark their territory. Additionally, new research into the practice of declawing cats has shown that a very high percentage of cats that have had their claws removed suffer chronic phantom pain that increases stress for the felines and causes a dramatic increase in a wide-variety of negative behaviors, including litter box "issues”.  For more information, visit  http://raesblog.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!E7828E8E4F2301DF!603.entry#comment

Added New Furniture
Sometimes something so simple as getting new furniture can lead to urine marking. Leather furniture seems to be especially vulnerable to being marked, possibly because the acids used to tan leather may be similar to uric acid.
  

STEPS TO SOLVE INAPPROPRIATE URINATION PROBLEM  

Vet Visit
A visit to the vet is the first step in ending urination problems with your cat. Your vet can help you determine if there is a medical problem that needs to be resolved before going on to the next steps.

Rule out medical problems FIRST

complete history and physical

stool/GI workup for diarrhea (if needed)

urinalysis for inappropriate urination to rule out an infection

workup for polydipsia/polyuria

important to check all cats of a multi-cat household

last cat seen misbehaving may be responding to chemical attraction and not be an instigator

more than one cat could have problem

treat/correct medical problems first. Behavioral problems can only be diagnosed in a healthy cat  

Territorial marking

neuter all cats (check history of neutered cats; retained testicle in male or signs of heat in female)

prevent other cats from coming around outside of house, close windows, blinds, and doors

prevent overcrowding in multi-cat households  

Litter box problems

provide a box for each cat

change litter daily

provide constant access to a box

go back to previously used brand of litter and/or discontinue new disinfectant

move box to where it was previously used

eliminate new or frightening noise near litter box

move food and water away from litter box

if cat is only going in one spot, put the litter box at the exact location and gradually move it back to where you want it at the rate of one foot per day

if there are several places, try putting dishes of cat food in those areas to discourage further elimination there

experiment with different textures of litter (cats prefer sandy litter)

use a covered litter box for cats that stand in box but eliminate outside of it  

Psychological Stress

eliminate if possible

try to provide each cat at home with its own "space"

use favorite resting areas to determine

provide separate letterboxes near each space if possible

cubicles, boxes, shelves, crates are effective for this

tranquilizers sometimes work well in multicat situations  

Chemical attraction

dispose of all soiled fabric or throw rugs if possible

50% vinegar or commercial products may be used

steam cleaning may help

repellants may help

do not replace carpeting until problem entirely solved or it may start all over again on your new carpeting  

Confinement
(In portable kennel with litter box, (with appropriate corrections) to stop further inappropriate behavior while medical and/or other problems are being treated.)

particularly beneficial for transient stress induced problem

may allow acclimation to stress situation where source of stress cannot be eliminated

procedure

choose an area that can be a permanent location of litter box

keep cat confined to this area 4-6 weeks when not under your direct visual supervision (if your cat attempts elimination outside of kennel when you are watching, squirt with water pistol as soon as elimination posture is attempted and put cat back in kennel)

if cat is using box regularly for 4 to 6 weeks when not under your gradually give access to larger and larger areas of your home, one room or hallway at a time

allow 1 week of good behavior in the new area before adding the new room

never increase access area until you are 100% certain cat's use of litter box is 100%

if accident occurs, re-evaluate this material to make sure litter box problem or something else didn't trigger

begin confinement over again and double intervals for relapses


Confine the Problem Kitty
Find a single room in the house where the cat can be comfortable but where its movement around the house can be easily restricted. A bathroom works very well. Move the cat's litter box, food and water to this room. (Note: make sure the litter box is as far away as possible from the food and water). The cat should be confined to this area for a period of at least 2 weeks. This firmly establishes this space as the cat's territory and provides sufficient time to break any old "habits."

Feed Only Quality Canned Food
Since cats are not big drinkers, they get much of their moisture from their food. Even if your veterinarian does not find a medical problem, it is possible one still exists. More recent research into feline urinary tract problems indicate that a host of urinary tract problems are caused by feeding cats dry food with poor quality protein. Avoid foods with any form of by-products or chemical preservatives. Feed canned foods with quality, whole meat sources. Some may tell you (including your veterinarian) that your cat needs dry food to keep their teeth clean. However, those who make the switch to quality canned foods generally report fewer dental problems, not more.
Some of them contain cranberry, proven to help the urinary tract of cats with urinary problems.

Make the change to the new food gradually.

Locate & Clean All Previously Marked Areas
Turn off your lights in the house at night, then use a black light to look for areas that need to be cleaned. Areas marked with cat urine will glow under the black light.  Clean any areas you find. Once clean, treat with
N2O odor eliminator. N2O eliminates cat urine smell permanently and completely. Unlike old fashioned enzymatic cleaners, N2O is nontoxic, biodegradable, leaves no odor of its own and is safe to use on a wide variety of fabrics and materials. Areas treated with N2O no longer attract cat marking.

Change to a Premium, Dust Free Litter
I use Swheat (clumpable and made from wheat).  Another good litter is the Worlds Best Cat Litter (clumpable and made from corn). Because they contain no clay, problems often associated with other scoopable litters are avoided.  If your cat has been declawed, you must also consider the very real possibility they may be experiencing pain in their paws, which may be aggravated by digging in a hard litter. Most of the premium, dust-free products are also softer and likely cause less pain for declawed cats.

Keep the Litter Box Clean
Ideally, trade in your old litter box for a self-cleaning
LitterMaid. This ensures your cat will have a clean box to use every time nature calls.  Without a LitterMaid, it will be critical to manually clean the litter box at least twice per day.

Spray Previously Marked Areas with Feliway
This new spray product will help retrain your cat to not mark in the house. Continue to spray key areas just prior to allowing the cat supervised visits to the rest of the house.

Supervised Excursions
Following the two week confinement period, begin letting the cat have supervised excursions to the rest of the house. At night time and when not being directly supervised, the cat should still be kept in the confinement area. Gradually begin giving them increased freedom to roam the house. If you observe the cat about to urinate or defecate outside of their litter box, take them directly to their litter box and confine them again. Continue using the Feliway per the instructions on the package for a period of at least 30 days.

Keep the Litter Box In Place
Once the cat has full, unsupervised access to the entire house, keep the new litter box in place. If it is your goal to move the litter box, do so very gradually. It is best to add a new litter box and ensure the cat is comfortable using it before removing or moving the old one.

Other Litter Box Tips

Make sure you have at least one litter box for each cat in your house. The litter boxes should not be right next to each other. Some cats do not mind sharing. But it is far better to avoid potential future problems by giving each cat their own box.

Clean the litter boxes often! Cats will be more likely to use them, and to be comfortable sharing litter boxes, if they are kept clean at all times.

Keep litter boxes in different areas of the house.

Place litter boxes in quiet, private areas. Most cats prefer privacy when using the litter box.

Avoid the use of covered litter boxes. Covers trap smell and bacteria and may keep your kitty from wanting to use the litter pan. Generally, covers are more for people: they help to conceal a dirty litter box. Covered boxes are, therefore, less frequently cleaned. So just don't use them.

Do not declaw your cat, or you may end up creating litter box issues in the future
as well as a multitude of other problems.  To learn more about declawing, visit http://raesblog.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!E7828E8E4F2301DF!603.entry#comment
  

Sources: 

http://animalark.eapps.com/animal/ArkArticles.nsf/31875ac8f5018de8862569bb00624354/4b5a91a40b5aeec686256c85005db04f?OpenDocument  

http://www.fanciers.com/cat-faqs/behavior.shtml  

http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body_feline_house_soiling.html  

http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?cls=1&cat=1310&articleid=158  

http://raesblog.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!E7828E8E4F2301DF!603.entry#comment  

http://www.stlouiscatclinic.com/Inappropriate_Urination.pdf

 

My clowder and I wish you and your kitty the best and we hope you find this information helpful!  

>^^<

July 07

Superchic[k]

Stand in the Rain

 

Pure

 

June 29

New Creative Outlet

I've been tinkering with Photo Story 3 - wherein I've made my own videos using still pics and mp3s.  That was great, but for some reason, I couldn't get them to upload to my YouTube account.....  I dinked with it until I got tired of it and ended up stumbling onto Mixpo - it is soooo kewl!  It's still in Beta stage, but it provided me with the ability to upload large video files to my own page. I can also download them to my live space in the blog section, although I chose the option of adding a gadget to play my creations.  I can also email links to my Mixpo page.
 
Currently, I'm allowed 20 mixcards, each holding 50 videos.  So far, I've uploaded two of my creations - only 998 left until it's full.  
 
Check out my creations in the Mixed Media Player above my photos.       /\
June 09

And the beat goes on...

This entry is a sort of personal diary.  I used to write poetry, now I just find lyrics online that express my feelings and emotions...  This will provide a quick reference for me when my attitude needs an adjustment.  It's been a long time since I've written anything - guess there's just too much turmoil...  The beat goes on...   

First of all, please check out the new Universal Video I added to the left.  Although I don't see the point in attacking an inanimate object, I must admit I do find amusement in the fantasy - LOL  That video cheers me up and makes me chuckle when I'm getting too wrapped up in this mess.  The lyrics that mean the most to me "the next time that he cheats, it won't be on me" - oh, so true!

Another song that brings back the positive attitude is "Don't Look Back" by Boston.  If you'd like to see the video, visit http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiOqHLVxZvA  Here are the lyrics:


Don't look back
A new day is breakin'
It's been too long since I felt this way
I don't mind where I get taken
The road is callin'
Today is the day

I can see
It took so long to realize
I'm much too strong
Not to compromise
Now I see what I am is holding me down
I'll turn it around

I finally see the dawn arrivin'
I see beyond the road I'm drivin'
Far away and left behind

It's a new horizon and I'm awakin' now
Oh I see myself in a brand new way
The sun is shinin'
the clouds are breakin'
'Cause I can't lose now, there's no game to play

I can tell
There's no more time left to criticize
I've seen what I could not recognize
Everything in my life was leading me on
but I can be strong

I finally see the dawn arrivin'
I see beyond the road I'm drivin'
Far away and left behind 
 

The song "Addicted" by Kelly Clarkson explains how I allowed my individuality to be sucked from my body.  You can view the video at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOQTj3WTeKI  I like the scenes from Smallville in this video.  Maybe you'll recognize a few if you're a sci-fi fan --- I refuse to lose my sense of humor!  Here are the lyrics:  

It's like you're a drug
It's like you're a demon I can't face down
It's like I'm stuck
It's like I'm running from you all the time
And I know I let you have all the power
It's like the only company I seek is misery all around
It's like you're a leech
Sucking the life from me
It's like I can't breathe
Without you inside of me
And I know I let you have all the power
And I realize I'm never gonna quit you over time

It's like I can't breathe
It's like I can't see anything
Nothing but you
I'm addicted to you
It's like I can't think
Without you interrupting me
In my thoughts
In my dreams
You've taken over me
It's like I'm not me
It's like I'm not me

It's like I'm lost
It's like I'm giving up slowly
It's like you're a ghost that's haunting me
Leave me alone
And I know these voices in my head
Are mine alone
And I know I'll never change my ways
If I don't give you up now

It's like I can't breathe
It's like I can't see anything
Nothing but you
I'm addicted to you
It's like I can't think
Without you interrupting me
In my thoughts
In my dreams
You've taken over me
It's like I'm not me
It's like I'm not me

I'm hooked on you
I need a fix
I can't take it
Just one more hit
I promise I can deal with it
I'll handle it, quit it
Just one more time
Then that's it
Just a little bit more to get me through this
I'm hooked on you
I need a fix
I can't take it
Just one more hit
I promise I can deal with it
I'll handle it, quit it
Just one more time
Then that's it
Just a little bit more to get me through this

It's like I can't breathe
It's like I can't see anything
Nothing but you
I'm addicted to you
It's like I can't think
Without you interrupting me
In my thoughts
In my dreams
You've taken over me
It's like I'm not me
It's like I'm not me

I've since broken the "addiction" and woke up.  Obviously, by now you've come to the conclusion that my marriage ended because the hubby found himself a girlfriend...  Not only that, but one who is 16 years younger than himself - I bet that's a real notch in his belt.  Obviously, she can't have much self-respect.  From what I understand, she's unemployed (living off child support and the State - and now him), and she's got two kids (possibly more) by two different daddies and has never been married - sounds like a real winner, huh?  I've since stopped calling him by the name his mama gave him - he's now referred to as Dickhead (because that's what he thinks with) - LOL  I told ya - I'm not giving up my sense of humor! 

It's sort of comical to me that Dickhead is such a big fan of Kelly Clarkson and Carrie Underwood - I wonder if he'd recognize any of these tunes.  Aaaugh, he can't even turn on a computer.  There are a few songs I'd be happy to never hear again:  "I'll Go On Loving You" by Alan Jackson,  "You Won't Ever Be Lonely" by Andy Griggs, "In My Life" by Johnny Cash or the Beatles, "Could I Have This Dance" by Anne Murray, and I hope I don't hear anything from:  Buck Owens, The Mavericks, Cher, Roy Orbison, Elvis, Charley Pride, Barry White, Loreena McKennitt or the Gladiator soundtrack.  Why does music bring back memories so vividly?

Enough of that...  Back to Kelly Clarkson - the video for "Never Again" can be viewed at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A45C4XKllYQ  Here are the lyrics:

I hope the ring you gave to her
Turns her finger green
I hope when you’re in bed with her
you think of me
I would never wish bad things
But I don’t wish you well
Could you tell
By the flames that burned your words
I never read your letter
Cause I knew what you’d say
Give me that Sunday school answer
Try make it all okay

Does it hurt
To know I'll never be there
bet it sucks
to see my face everywhere
It was you
Who chose to end it like you did
I was the last to know
you knew
exactly what you would do
Don’t say
You simply lost your way
She may believe you
But I never will
Never again

If she really knows the truth
She deserves you
A trophy wife Oh, how cute
Ignorance is bliss
But when your day comes
And he’s through with you
And he’ll be through with you
You’ll die together, but alone
You wrote me in a letter
You couldn’t say it right to my face
Well, give me that Sunday school answer
Repent yourself away

Does it hurt
To know I'll never be there
bet it sucks to see my face everywhere
It was you
Who chose to end it like you did
I was the last to know
you knew
exactly what you would do
Don't say
You simply lost your way
They may believe you
But I never will
Never again

Never again will I hear you
Never again will I miss you
Never again will I fall to you
Never
Never again will I kiss you
Never again will I want to
Never again will I love you
Never!

Does it hurt
To know I'll never be there
Bet it sucks
To see my face everywhere
It was you
Who chose to end it like you did
I was the last to know
you knew
exactly what you would do
Don’t say
You simply lost your way
They may believe you
But I never will
I Never Will
I never will
Never again 
 

And NOW, one of my favorite performers Chris Daughtry sings "Over You" and can be heard at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yquRspVlH88  Here are the lyrics:

Now that it’s all said and done
I can’t believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down
Like an old abandoned house
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath
I felt as if I was in way to deep
Guess I let you get the best of meeee

(Chorus)  Well I never saw it coming
I should have started running
A long, long time agooo!
And I never thought I’d doubt you

I’m better off without you
More than you, more than you know
I’m slowly getting closure
I guess it’s really over
I’m finally getting better
Now I’m picking up the pieces
From spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together
‘Cause the day I thought I’d never get through
I got over you!!!  (End Chorus)

You took a hammer to these walls
Dragged the memories down the hall
Packed your bags and walked away
There was nothing I could say,
And when you slammed the front door shut
A lot of others opened up
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for meee

(Chorus)  Well I never saw it coming
I should have started running
A long, long time agooo!
And I never thought I’d doubt you
I’m better off without you
More than you, more than you know
I’m slowly getting closure
I guess it’s really over
I’m finally getting better
Now I’m picking up the pieces
From spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together
‘Cause the day I thought I’d never get through
I got over you!!!  (End Chorus)

I never saw it coming
I should have started running
A long, long time agooo
And I never thought I’d doubt you
I’m better off without you

And I never saw it coming
I should have started running
I’m finally getting better
Now I’m picking up the pieces
From spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together
And I got over you!!!
And I got over you!!!
And I got over you!!!

The day I thought I’d never get through
I got over you!!!

Oh, believe me, it's not that easy, but having these links on my live space where I can access them easily will help adjust my attitude appropriately.  A very kind friend recently dedicated this song to me; I'd never heard it before, but I sure do like it - Thanks Joyce!!!  It's by Enigma and it's called "Return to Innocence".  You can watch the video at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkaY_lc_2UM  Here are the lyrics:

Love – Devotion
Feeling - Emotion

Love – Devotion
Feeling – Emotion

Don't be afraid to be weak
Don't be too proud to be strong
Just look into your heart my friend
That will be the return to yourself
The return to innocence.

If you want, then start to laugh
If you must, then start to cry
Be yourself don't hide
Just believe in destiny.

Don't care what people say
Just follow your own way
Don't give up and use the chance
To return to innocence.

That's not the beginning of the end
That's the return to yourself
The return to innocence.

Don't care what people say
Follow just your own way
Follow just your own way
Don't give up, don't give up
To return, to return to innocence.

If you know of a tune that would appropriate or uplifting, please share it with me.   

>^^<

April 17

Spaz.... Improvement!

Thank you for keeping us in your prayers - they are indeed powerful!  I have wonderful news:
 
1.  Spaz' appetite is greatly improved.  I changed her diet to Life's Abundance - she wouldn't eat the Prescription stuff from the vet (it wasn't stinky enough).  She can't eat anything but canned and simply won't.  Life's Abundance is made by a holistic vet here in the US and it's all organic and human-quality food without additives and preservatives --- she loves it! Apparently, it's helping because...
 
2.  She's walking (though with a small stagger) and she's even jumping up on the bed (and down, carefully)!!!  So, after sleeping on the floor with her for two nights, we've moved back to the bed - comfortably.
 
3.  She's not vomiting anymore - the vet suggested crushing generic pepcid and mixing with her food to coat her tummy so she's not nauseous and eats more.....
 
I know the end will come (probably within the year) because Spaz simply won't allow the IV fluid injections like Nero did and she won't eat the Rx food.  The vet & I agreed to keep her as happy and healthy as Spaz will allow without stressing her.  I was just flabbergasted at how quickly the CRF progressed after the diagnosis --- I'm just not ready to lose her.  Since the weather's warmed, I keep the bedroom door open to the screened-in back porch and Spaz loves going out there, basking in the sunshine, enjoying the fresh air, watching the rabbits and squirrels and chirping at the birds.  Life is still good..........
 
Enjoying Head Butts, Whisker Tickles & Licky Kisses,
 
~Rae & Spaz
 
April 09

Nero & Spaz

Today is the 3rd anniversary of Nero's death.  He was two weeks shy of 20.  He had chronic renal failure that we'd battled for a year when cancer took him. 
 
A couple weeks ago, I was informed that Spaz, too, has chronic renal failure.  We celebrated her 15th birthday last week and made it very special because I feared it may be her last.  Early this morning, she took a sharp turn for the worse.  Her potassium levels are very low and she can't walk very well.  In fact, sometimes, she can't get up because her muscles are so weak.  She was playing and then an hour later, she couldn't walk!  That was quick.
 
After much research online, the vet's office finally opened.  The vet reminded me of indicators of pain - which there are none and also the signs to look for that the end is near - lack of appetite and hiding, etc.  Fortunately, Spaz has a healthy appetite and is almost constantly on my lap and very affectionate.  Nonetheless, the end is much closer than I'd originally anticipated.  I've moved my laptop into the bedroom (her domain) and I'll be camped on the floor (since she can't jump on the bed to sleep on my pillow) until she no longer needs me..... and the vet comes for that final visit.....
 
My "Gleesome Threesome" are accustomed to having me at their beck and call during the day, so they miss their servant.  I do venture out of the bedroom while Spaz sleeps to try to keep them content and cater to their needs. 
 
I just thought I'd share this info because normally I tend to isolate myself with undesirable results.  Anyway, in a nutshell, if we should cross your mind in the next few weeks, any prayers or positive energy you could spare would be appreciated.  Maybe, with that, I'll retain my sanity and the grieving won't be as bad as it was with Nero.
February 25

Declawing. . .

I was taught 'cite your source' is much preferred to 'trust me'; this entry is color coded to reflect the proper source from the list at the end which I've provided for your further research.
 
If you are seriously considering declawing your cat, she will live her remaining years with the result of your decision, one way or another, so please be a responsible ‘parent’ and make an informed decision.
 
1)  Declawing is NOT Just Nail Trimming
Nor is declawing only the removal of a portion of a claw. Instead, it is the surgical amputation of the first joint of the cat's toes. Whether this procedure is accomplished with a scalpel, a guillotine-type cutter or a laser, it is major surgery, and not to be undertaken lightly.  Declawing is a painful, cruel, and inhumane practice of mutilation, much like amputating a human's fingers at the first knuckle.
 
2)  Declawing Does Nothing to Benefit the Cat
You will sometimes hear the disclaimer, "It's better than putting her to sleep."  This is a fallacious argument, and usually offered only to soothe the owner's conscience.  Only the cat's owner can make the decision to kill his cat because of scratching problems.  He can also make the decision to let her keep her toes.  Unlike neutering, which does benefit the cat (both health-wise and behavior-wise); declawing simply does nothing positive for the cat. Declawing is illegal in many countries.
 
3)  Declawing Robs a Cat of Her Chief Weapon of Defense
A typical counter-argument is, "My cat is indoors-only."  Even indoor cats sometimes manage to escape.  A declawed cat does not stand a chance against a large dog, a bigger cat, or a predator.  Although she still has teeth, by the time she gets in close enough to bite, it’ll probably be too late.
 
4)  Declawing is Painful Surgery
Think of it as 10 amputations (if only the front feet are declawed).  Pain meds may help initially, but phantom pain may last throughout the cat’s entire life.  Along with long-lasting phantom pain, possible negative effects of declawing include anesthetic complications, infection, hemorrhage, or degenerative claw regrowth, in which the claw grows back through the top of the toe.
 
5)  Declawing May Lead to Litter Box Problems
Declawed cats often associate the pain when digging in litter with the litter box itself, and will avoid it, choosing softer carpeting instead.  Declawed cats who can no longer “mark territory” with their claws, are forced to mark with urine instead resulting in inappropriate elimination problems, which in many cases, results in relinquishment of the cats to shelters and ultimately euthanasia.
 
6)  Declawing Sometimes Leads to Biting Problems
When cats lose their ability to give a quick warning scratch, they will often resort to their second line of defense: a good, hard bite.   A declawed cat frequently resorts to biting when confronted with even minor threats.  Biting becomes an overcompensation for the insecurity of having no claws.  The cat's owner may sometimes find himself the victim, just when he thinks his cat is enjoying a petting session.  Biting habits develop as the only means of self-defense available, leading to subsequent abandonment or euthanasia.
 
7)  Cats Need the Exercise Their Claws and Toes Provide
Watch a cat stretch, whether horizontally on a carpet or vertically with a tall scratching post. She will grab the carpet or sisal with her claws, using the resistance to pull and stretch her muscles. Cats' claws actually play a large and positive role in their amazing muscle tone and agility.  Declawing deprives a cat of the stretching, pulling exercise necessary for the development of strong muscles.
 
8)  Altered Gait May Lead to Later Joint Problems
Domestic cats are digitigrade, meaning they walk on their toes. Walking with an altered gait because of the lack of the first digit of the toes can affect all the joints of the leg, resulting later in arthritis of the hip and other joints.   Balance is negatively affected by the inability to grasp with their claws.  Declawing forces cats to alter their gait, this eventually can lead to tendon damage and crippling arthritis.
 
9)  Declawing Causes Psychological & Behavioral Complications
Some cats are so shocked by declawing that their personalities change. Cats that were lively and friendly have become withdrawn and introverted after being declawed. Others, deprived of their primary means of defense, become nervous, fearful, and/or aggressive, often resorting to their only remaining means of defense, their teeth.  Many declawed cats become so traumatized by this painful mutilation that they end up spending their maladjusted lives perched on top of doors and refrigerators, out of reach of real and imaginary predators against whom they no longer have any adequate defense.  A cat relies on its claws as its primary means of defense. Removing the claws makes a cat feel defenseless. The constant state of stress caused by a feeling of defenselessness may make some declawed cats more prone to disease.  A declawed cat’s frustration and stress lead to a myriad of physical and psychological disorders including suppression of the immune system, skin disorders, chronic cystitis and irritable bowel syndrome (IBS). 
 
10)  Declawed Cats Lose Grooming Ability
It is important that every cat should keep itself well groomed.  A smooth, clean coat of fur is essential for a cat's well-being.  It is vital for temperature control, for cleanliness, for waterproofing, and for controlling the scent signaling the feline body.  As a result, cats spend a great deal of time every day dealing with their toilet.  In addition to the typical licking movements, they perform repeated scratchings. These scratching actions are a crucial part of the cleaning routine, getting rid of skin irritations, dislodging dead hairs, and combing out tangles in the fur. Without claws, it is impossible for any cat to scratch itself efficiently, and the whole grooming pattern suffers as a result. Even if the human owners help out with brush and comb, there is no way they can replace the sensitivity of the natural scratching response of their pet. Anyone who has ever suffered an itch that can't be scratched will sympathize with the dilemma of the declawed cat.
 
11)  Declawed Cats Lose Climbing Ability
Climbing is second nature to all small felines, and it is virtually impossible for a cat to switch off its urge to climb, even if she is punished for doing so. And punished she certainly will be if she attempts to climb after having her claws removed, for she will no longer have any grip in her feet. Even the simple act of climbing up onto a chair or a window ledge may prove hazardous. Without the pinpoint contact of the tips of the claws, the animals may find themselves slipping and crashing to the ground. The expression of disbelief and confusion that is observed on the faces of such cats as they pick themselves up is in itself sufficient to turn any cat lover against the idea of claw removal. If the cat accidentally gets out of doors, she is defenseless against enemies (other cats in a cat fight, dogs, mean humans, etc.). In addition, scratching offers psychological comfort through its rhythmic action, and reassurance of self-defense by the contraction of the claws.
 
12)  Declawed Cats Lose Ability to Hunt
In addition to destroying the animal's ability to groom, climb, defend itself against rivals, and protect itself from enemies, the operation of declawing also eliminates the cat's ability to hunt. This may not be important for a well-fed family pet, but if ever such a cat were to find itself lost or homeless, she would rapidly die of starvation. The vital grab at a mouse with sharp claws extended would become a useless gesture.
 
A declawed cat is a maimed cat, and anyone considering having the operation done should think again. People hastily declaw cats hoping to protect their furniture as well as themselves from potential scratches. It's natural for a cat to scratch, but with a little human effort, you can direct that energy so that you, your cat, and your furniture can comfortably live together.
 
The reason for the popularity of the declawing operation in recent years has been the concern of owners for their furnishings.  Valuable chair fabrics, curtains, cushions, and other materials are often found scratched, torn, and tattered as a result of the family cat's claw sharpening activities around the house, and the addition of commercially manufactured scratching posts to the indoor furniture rarely seems to solve the problem by itself. It takes other measures by the pet owner in combination with an alternative scratching area.  Home furnishings may be expensive, but a cat's well-being is priceless.
 
Scratches to humans can be avoided by always handling cats gently and respectfully and keeping a cat's claws clipped is the single best way to prevent scratches to humans, as well as to reduce a cat's need for scratching to keep nails sharpened.
 
Your cat depends on you to provide for her health and well-being.  Your cat should trust you, and depend upon you for protection.  Don't betray that trust by declawing your cat. Below are safe alternatives to declawing your cat:
 
1.      A tall, sturdy and heavy scratching post sprinkled occasionally with catnip is the favored alternative. Some cats are partial to sisal doormats.  
2.      When selecting furniture, a closely woven fabric is the best. Cats find this type of fabric difficult to pierce with their claws.
3.      When your cat begins to scratch on a piece of furniture, give her a firm warning such as "No!" and then give her a quick squirt from a mister or water pistol. This should discourage her. Then call her to her scratching post with a food treat and praise her when she comes and uses the post. This may have to be done over and over until she understands.
4.      If accustomed to the procedure, cats will tolerate having the curved part of their claws clipped regularly. Visit http://www.declawing.com/htmls/trimming.htm for instructions and photos.
5.      Until your cat learns that only the scratching posts (it's recommended that you have several), are for scratching, cover her favorite furniture scratching areas with either one or a combination of aluminum foil, a loosely woven fabric, double-sided tape, or blown up balloons taped to the furniture.
6.      When playing with a kitten or cat, NEVER use your hand or arms in play. This teaches her that people are toys and she may scratch simply in play.  Each time your cat scratches you, give her a loud "OUCH" and leave the room.  One of the most effective punishments for a cat is being ignored.
 
Scratching is the very essence of a cat being a cat. These simple, inexpensive modifications in your cat's behavior and environment can eliminate damaged furniture and scratched humans.
 
Remember, declawing is radical surgery that involves amputating the first joint of a cat's toes. It's permanent, expensive, unnecessary, and irreversible, and may have unwanted affect on your cat's health and behavior.  It’s easily avoidable with a bit of effort and training.  It is my firm belief that if you don’t have the time to train your cat, you don’t have the time to HAVE your cat.
 
Educate, don’t amputate. . .  I hope I’ve helped your kitty save her claws.

>^^<
 
Sources:
http://maxshouse.com/facts_about_declawing.htm - statistics of declawed cats abandoned, euthanized
http://petstation.com/declaw.html - David E. Hammett, DVM viewpoint
http://www.declawing.com/htmls/trimming.htm - how to trim claws with photos
http://www.declawing.com/  - written by Veterinarian, Dr. Christianne Schelling
http://www.declawing.com/list.html - list of countries where declawing cats is illegal or extremely inhumane/performed under extreme circumstances
http://www.littleshelter.com/library/declaw_cat.htm - You Can’t Declaw with Love by Dr. Rowen, DVM

January 21

Clowder House

Last night, Kevin and I went to the Fur Ball.  The Fur Ball is a fund-raising event for the Clowder House.  Clowder House is a retirement home for kitties.
 
Clowder House provides lifetime care for your kitty or kitties when you are no longer able to do so, for whatever reason.  They offer a tranquil setting with plenty of kitty toys, furniture and sunny windows.  Music, human love and companionship are part of the residents' everyday lives.
 
They are a no-kill, minimum-cage facility, and they make every effort to accommodate a kitty's special needs.  Cages are used only for new residents until they are acclimated to their surroundings, or for sick or injured kitties requiring observation and special care.
 
The Clowder House also provided homes for abused, neglected and unadoptable kitties, as space and funds allow.  Rescued kitties who can be socialized are available for adoption into loving homes.
 
Because a good diet is essential to kitties' health, they feed all resident kitties Iams or Hill's Prescription Diets unless otherwise directed by a veterinarian.  The medical needs of all resident kitties are a primary concern.  A veterinarian is available 24 hours a day for emergency services.  All residents receive routine check-ups, dental exams and inoculations.  All kitties are tested for FIV/feline leukemia upon arrival.  Infected kitties are still welcome at Clowder House, but they will be placed in their own areas to protect the health of the other residents.  All residents must be spayed or neutered unless doing so would endanger the kitty's health.  Kitties that cannot have such procedures will be placed in their own areas.
 
Clowder House provides many opportunities for you to have continued contact with your kitty.  If you desire and are able, you may visit your kitty at the Foundation's Visiting Room.  Arrangements may also be made for your kitty to visit with you at your home, nursing home, retirement home or hospital, provided the facility and your physician allow feline visitors.  If you request, you can receive pictures of your kitty and newsletters.  They offer a special Senior Area to accommodate the special dietary and sanitary needs of older kitties, with a quiet and secluded environment for catnapping.
 
Clowder House is a not-for-profit 501(c)3 corporation dedicated to providing a safe and loving environment for retirement and rescue kitties.  They are located in St. Louis, Missouri.  While many of the retirement kitties' needs have been provided by their owners, they are dedicated to assisting rescue kitties for whom nobody is responsible by providing them with a permanent, no-kill shelter if they are unable to find a suitable adoption home. 
 
If you have questions or need additional information regarding sponsorship, or making retirement arrangements for your own kitty, please call 314-776-PURR (7877), or e-mail clowderhouse@juno.com.  Clowder House Foundation, 3134 Wyoming, St. Louis, MO 63118  If you click on the brochure photos below, a pop-up will provide you with larger, readable information.
December 10

Deer Season 2006

Deer Season provided five deer for the family.  More could have been harvested if there had been more candles offered at The Alter to the Deer Gods.  Photos below include Ryan smoking up the trailer making pancakes for breakfast while Kevin washes dishes.  It's so nice when everyone helps out, makes it more fun, too.  The Hoof 'n Hide is the party barn - it was named by Ben, Kevin's oldest brother.  I made the sign about three years ago and it's been reworked every year - hopefully, this is the last.  The Clydesdale Brothers performed some weight tests for us and discovered a few deer stands that could stand some reinforcement/improvement and also found a few more more weak spots in the floor - Kevin suggested we keep the horses in the barn, but that's just because it means work for him.  HaHa  I didn't take as many pictures as I usually do - now that it's over, I realize I should have taken more. . .
November 23

Thanksgiving is for giving thanks. . .

At Thanksgiving

 
I'm so grateful to have cats in my life that I can't imagine life without them. I believe that if there is a Heaven (and there is), it has to include cats (at least I sure hope so).
 
November holds the time set aside in the United States for reflecting on the things in our lives for which we are thankful, and my cats are always pushing the top of the list. Here, then is my tribute to some special cats I'm thankful to have known, on the occasion of Thanksgiving:
 
While I don't remember ever not having kitties growing up, Nero was the first kitty I ever had living on my own.  I adopted him from a Humane Society foster mother.  He came into my life at a time when Daddy was still alive - Nero was with me through every difficult time in my life, but I don't believe he left me to face life's trials alone as you'll read later.  That cat couldn't stand to see me cry - he'd get right in my face and meow as if to say, "it'll be okay Mommy, I love you, please don't be sad." The last photo of Daddy was taken with Nero and me - Daddy eating ice cream and Nero waiting to lick the bowl (what a nice memory).  Nero always slept curled up in my right armpit.  His favorite toy was his Snoopy fishing pole with a toy on the end that he'd catch and drag all over the house.  He also became quite the catnip connoisseur - I remember sampling many different brands and he came to the conclusion that Cosmic Catnip is the absolute best and that's all I've bought since. . .  Nero was truly a blessing and he lived to be almost 20 years old.  We'd battled kidney failure for quite a while and the fluid injections that I gave him almost daily helped - in the end, cancer caught him.  Nero was my first-born and incredibly patient with me.  I tried to give him a good life and keep him happy and healthy, but when he was in pain and there wasn't any more I could do to comfort him, I couldn't allow him to be in pain and my only choice was to let him go.  It wasn't a difficult choice to make, but it was very painful.  I believe in Guardian Angels and he's definitely one of mine.
 
Apollo adopted me by coming into my laundry room and eating Black Jack's dry dog food.  He was a quiet, petite, beautiful blue Persian.  I didn't have much time with him - he had allergies.  The medication for his allergies took a horrible toll on his kidneys.
 
Shortly after Apollo went to heaven, I adopted Princess Spazzmatazz 'Spaz' from the Humane Society.  She'd been dropped off because she was destructive when left alone - I knew that wouldn't be a problem, because Nero would keep her company.  She is a tiny Siamese mix with a loud, demanding and sometimes intimidating voice.  She's very talkative and loyal to one person (both traits of her breed).  She only has two fangs left - her breed is known for caries lesions (cavities in Humans).  She sleeps on my pillow or in my right armpit.  She only eats Iams canned catfood - chewing dry food is painful for her, so she gulps it and urps it.  Spaz loves boxes and the smaller the better.  Spaz enjoys being picked up by her tail - she's very odd.  She's so petite, she seems to stretch when I pick her up by the base of her tail - she acts as though it feels good to her.  She also likes curling up in my suitcase, as if to make sure I don't forget to take her when I go somewhere.  She also informs me that I spend too much time on the computer by closing my laptop and laying on it or just plopping down on the keyboard - not such a subtle hint. . .  She is declawed and wobbles in her old age - At the time, I didn't know that declawing is terribly cruel, amputation, mutilation and that is causes problems - I've since learned a lot and would never consider having any kitty declawed.  She sure surprised me chasing a squirrel up a tree!  She also caught a bird last year for the first time in her life.  She may be 14 years old, but she's still feisty and full of surprises.  Spaz likes lazing in the sunshine outdoors, so I had the deck converted into a screened-in back porch - now she can enjoy the fresh air and sunshine without my having to keep a constant eye on her. . .  She gives me head butts when she wants affection.  She has the longest whiskers I've ever seen on a kitty and uses them to give me whisker tickles when she wants me to wake up and pet her. . .  She seems to look forward to my companionship and sure makes me feel appreciated.  I'm so grateful to share life with her.
 
TC (trailer cat) came into my life at the Lair.  She's a tri-color tortoise shell kitty.  She approached Kevin and it didn't take long for her to convert him into a 'cat lover'.  We fed her hotdogs and it gave her terrible, stinky gas.  She lived under our trailer for a couple years as our resident mouser.  She had three litters at the Lair and over time, I coaxed her into coming inside - never once did she show any interest in leaving.  She never disrespected Nero or caused any problems inside.  She didn't know what a litter box was for - she'd lie down and roll around in it, playing - until Nero saw her.  He got in the litter box and showed her what it was for.  She learned quickly and never had an accident or forgot.  Even though I'd supply lots of food for her, it would sadden my soul to put her back outside to leave her alone when it was time to come back to the city.  Whenever we would return, we would honk the horn and she'd come running - it was such a relief to see that she'd survived another week.  There was one time she didn't come and I was scared.  There was about six inches of snow on the ground.  Kevin suggested we go to Brian's barn - it'd be warm there and mice to eat.  We drove up to the barn, I got out and called 'here kitty, kitty, kitty.'  TC and her two kittens came running from the bails of hay - I was so happy.  We put the kitties in pet carriers and brought them to the trailer - they were quite happy to see us as well.  TC had a few kittens who hold a place in my heart - Victor, a black cat who visited occasionally, but was a bit timid.  It was painful to see TC run him off - she was due again and Victor had to be on his own and didn't understand.  Buffy and Spike who came in the trailer with TC and made themselves at home - Buffy looks just like her mama and Spike is an orange tiger-stripe.
 
TC's last litter came within days of burying Nero.  She delivered them in the Living Room in the pet carrier on a Saturday night.  Sunday morning I awoke to quite a surprise - four new additions to the family!  Upon seeing the black kitten, I couldn't resist picking it up.  I saw a white diamond on its neck - just like Nero had!  I cried.  I also discovered it was a little girl and she had a white cummerbun.  Reincarnation - maybe not, but definitely a gift intended especially for me.  She was definitely without a doubt a keeper!  I closed the door to the pet carrier and brought all five of them home with me to the city.  She would have to be named after Nero, so I scrambled up the letters and she's Reno.  She's also an individual with her own personality so she's Druscilla Reno.  She is the runt of the litter and at the bottom of the hierarchy totem pole, but full of energy with an insatiable appetite and definitely my special little girl.  The boy I kept is Angelus - in time I've learned his name fits him perfectly - he's named after a vampire, a demon with an angel's face.  HaHa  The other two kittens got adopted together to a good home.  Angelus is a HUGE grey tiger-striped kitty.  He nursed until he was almost two years old - and still tries.  Whatever I'm drinking, he has to share - I guess that's a rule he made, I don't object.  The only thing I DON'T like is the fact that he acts like a dog and wants to drink out of the toilet - I learned to keep the lids closed.  TC and Reno give me head butts and licky kisses to demand and show affection.  Angelus likes foot lovin' and plops down on your feet wanting you to rub his back. 
 
I guess they're spoiled, maybe that's because I'm a much better mother to my clowder than years ago because I've researched and learned so much.  The 'family' doesn't mind me trimming their claws - I've gotten pretty good at it and I'm very gentle.  Each morning when I wake up Spaz greets me with a head butt and a whisker tickle.  After I make the bed and feed Spaz, I open the bedroom door and the Gleesome Threesome are at my feet to greet me with cuddles and licky kisses.  I'm at their beck and call 24/7 and I'm honored and proud to be their human.  Yes, I have a lot to be thankful for.  Each of my babies (past and present) has their own web page in Petster:
I even created a page for my 'favorite' pet - Hubby http://www.petster.com/TammyRae/pets/16165
 
 
 
November 05

Angelus as himself!

Angelus is named after a vampire, so I thought it only fitting to dress him appropriately.  He didn't seem to care.  Druscilla Reno thought he was handsome, so she licky-kissed him.
October 30

Deer Cam - Big Boys

Out of 398 photos on the deer camera, I'm only uploading a few. . .  Have a couple photos of an 11-pointer who Kevin says would score about 150. . .  Even though you can't eat the antlers, they're still cool to see. . .  I got a shot of two bucks sparring, too - that's pretty cool!
October 29

Halloween 2006

Visiting all the way from tropical Hawaii, Dog the Bounty Hunter and his wife, Beth Chapman attended a Halloween Party at the Moberly Eagles. 
 
The first couple of photos are of Cousin Ryan lazing around on the couch at the Lair.  Next is the sweater I painted for my Halloween costume.  Kevin and Rae pose at the Lair before going to the party. 
 
Everyone knows Dog wouldn't be complete without the feathers in his hair or his mace.  He says 'I don't need a gun - I've got Beth.'  Those were two of the accessories I made for the costume.  The wigs and his 'leather' vest were what we used from the 'purchased' costumes.  Although I did make a special label to put on the back of his vest using Dog's logo - I used that on the mace can, too.  I even painted his beard - it was amazing how many people didn't recognize him - it was funny.  Other special touches we added include the chest, the arm band, dogtags, spurs and tattoos.  My special touches included the boobs (duh!), the handcuff belt (Thanks for buying that for me Big Daddy), dogtags, the sweater I painted, high-heel sandles and those 2" square airbrushed fingernails.  People were coming up to Kevin all night to shake the hand of a celebrity.  Beth got on a rant singing 'la lee la lee Ice Head'.  The only thing we failed to bring were the wanted posters. . .  But it worked out okay, we found a wanted criminal who was fleeing from justice - a retired boxer who maybe had been hit in the head a few times too many.  Dog apprehended the fugitive with his famous 'Freeze motherxxxxxx' and quickly called Beth to handcuff the culprit.  As they escorted the escapee back to justice, Dog offered him a cigarette and spoke with him about the error of his ways with the hope of planting a seed for reform.
 
We got SO many compliments on the costumes.  Of course, in my opinion Big Daddy is always the most handsome man in any surrounding. . .  The DJ even played Big Daddy's theme song!  All the work I put into the costumes was worthwhile.  We had a blast! 
 
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